Infj anger

But we do get angry and our outbursts can be nasty. People usually don’t associate the word “ anger ” with INFJs. It’s difficult to imagine how a gentle and quiet person like an INFJ can be angry.

But under stress, a different side of the INFJ comes out. Although usually private and reserved about our feelings, we’re not immune to lashing out or being critical of others when we feel hurt. For our friends and loved ones, witnessing the dark side of the INFJ can be confusing. Let’s take a closer look at the dark side of the INFJ. I am going to give you a story that perfectly outlines an INFJ — and it in one of us becoming angry.

About years ago, an INFJ friend of mine was on a bus. It would probably surprise people who think INFJs are harmless to learn their stress-induced anger can actually be “more focuse intense, and extreme” than other types. But it’s no surprise to the INFJs. When An INFJ Gets Angry found on Pinterest. Stress isn’t the only thing that can bring out an INFJ ’s angry side.

What Each Myers-Briggs Type Does When They’re Angry (And What They Should Do Instead). We all handle anger a little differently. Afterall, Jesus was apparently an model INFJ.

Most have the patience of an iceberg waiting for hell to freeze over. You know it, that flare of anger , that feeling of “I HAVE to say something, NOW! I know it well, it’s been the precursor to many of my most inappropriate outbreaks of temper.

Our “F” energy puts us squarely in the middle of the emotion of any situation. If I had to add something to the list of things on the INFJ dark side, it would be our “obsessions”. I’m not sure if I can explain this well, but I’ll give it a try. For example, when I have a thought, a simple, quick, single thought, it immediately spirals into something bigger and bigger, until it becomes an obsession. INFJ anger is a particular type of anger.

Two approaches are taken to the same end: 1. I don’ t get angry, I withdraw. As much as INFJs are caring, emotional, and kin we can also be cold and distant. We don’t understand the balance when it comes to our own feelings.

There’s a general rule INFJs know all too well. If your INFJ is emotional and showing effort to reach out, that friendship can be saved. For INFJ traights, I like to. Heck, it’s enough to trigger the five stages of INTP anger.

Like the ISFJ, the INFJ wants harmony and for everybody to be good to each other. But INFJs tend to be much more concerned with how that plays out on a big, society-wide level. An INFJ when it comes to food would look at it and say, this is what I feel I want. They would feel it out to see where it goes.

An INFJ is at their best when they are looking for highest wisdom and it will best serve a situation. Your superpower allows you way too much access to people’s inner soft spots to be. You can be mean as fuck when you’re hurt or angry, and once you say the awful things you instinctively just know to say, you cannot ever take them back. Do NOT EVER respond in anger , to anything. They might let out their anger slowly, in light hearted but frustrated comments that get their point across without burning bridges.

What can set them off: feeling like they’re not acknowledge hurting someone they are close to. INFJ : Hard to get angry, since they are very loyal and committed to maintaining harmony. If you feel yourself getting ma walk away immediately.

Your intensity is a powerful asset, but it can be very damaging to your relationships if you fall into the anger trap and start yelling at your loved ones. When you get angry are you the type of person who blows up on the spot? Or do you suppress your anger , trying to deal with it internally rather than externally?

Ren here welcome to my room slightly darker day today first overcast day and like three weeks in the South of France cause you. In my early 20s and prior, I had extreme anger outbursts like once every few years. I didn’t know how to articulate my boundaries then and wasn’t clear with what I was feeling. So I allowed my anger to build inside until I couldn’t take it anymore and then I exploded in front of others. INFJs need to exercise self-control tho and not vent anger.

Anyone have any experience overcoming their own anger problems or those of an INFJ you know? Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress. Because the INFJ has such strong intuitive capabilities, they trust their own instincts above all else. However, I’d still like to delve a little further into the dark depths of the INFJ personality type.

Taking a notice to few things INFJs typically struggle with. Even if you think that INFJs are calm and content, the real inside of us can be difficult to understand. INFJ is dominated by introverted intuition (something INTP does not have), that causes them to ABSORB and understand people, emotions, and social movements at an unprecedented speed.

INFJ is drawn to theory, psychics, and the like because of this absorbent attitude it has.